{"id":17183,"date":"2017-01-27T19:49:50","date_gmt":"2017-01-27T18:49:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/?p=17183"},"modified":"2017-03-05T09:56:36","modified_gmt":"2017-03-05T08:56:36","slug":"odmitnout-bez-pocitu-viny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/odmitnout-bez-pocitu-viny\/","title":{"rendered":"JAK ODM\u00cdTNOUT BEZ POCITU VINY"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">U\u010d\u00edm se zach\u00e1zet se svou odpov\u011bdnost\u00ed. To znamen\u00e1 vid\u011bt hranice toho, co moje odpov\u011bdnost je, a vid\u011bt i hranice toho, co u\u017e moje odpov\u011bdnost nen\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Takhle to zn\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 jednodu\u0161e, ale v praxi zji\u0161\u0165uji, \u017ee to tak snadn\u00e9 nen\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Nau\u010dila jsem se toti\u017e p\u0159ij\u00edmat ciz\u00ed odpov\u011bdnost za svou. V\u00fdsledkem bylo nap\u011bt\u00ed v t\u011ble, kdy hlavn\u011b m\u00e9 trap\u00e9zy protestovaly. Bode\u010f ne, kdy\u017e jsem na nich tahala ciz\u00ed starosti. A tak\u00e9 byl ve mn\u011b t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nep\u0159etr\u017eit\u00fd stres. Byl jakoby skryt\u00fd na pozad\u00ed, tak\u017ee jsem ho skoro nevn\u00edmala. Byl moj\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed, pat\u0159il ke mn\u011b, a j\u00e1 si na n\u011bj zvykla.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">A\u017e nyn\u00ed, kdy\u017e se u\u010d\u00edm zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 hranice, ho za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m vid\u011bt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Stalo se mi nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee m\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e1 po\u017e\u00e1dala o spolupr\u00e1ci. Ona mi dod\u00e1 p\u00edsemn\u00e9 podklady, j\u00e1 je dopln\u00edm a k ur\u010dit\u00e9mu datu ode\u0161lu k publikaci. A pak od n\u00ed p\u0159i\u0161el mail, kter\u00fd m\u011b trknul. Trknul m\u011b proto, abych si v\u0161imla. Prosila m\u011b v n\u011bm toti\u017e, a\u017e se bude bl\u00ed\u017eit term\u00edn publikace, abych j\u00ed p\u0159ipomn\u011bla, \u017ee mi m\u00e1 poslat ty materi\u00e1ly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Moje t\u011blo zaprotestovalo. To bylo to trknut\u00ed. T\u00edm, \u017ee se u\u010d\u00edm t\u011blu naslouchat, jsem zachytila tlak v b\u0159i\u0161e. T\u00edm m\u011b t\u011blo upozornilo, \u017ee se d\u011bje n\u011bco, co se mi nel\u00edb\u00ed. Ano, kdybych j\u00ed vyhov\u011bla, \u0161la bych proti sob\u011b. Upozadila bych sebe. Tak jak jsem to d\u011bl\u00e1vala d\u0159\u00edve, naprosto b\u011b\u017en\u011b a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b. V\u016fbec mi to tehdy nep\u0159i\u0161lo divn\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Kdy\u017e jsem v sob\u011b m\u011bla jasno, bylo pro m\u011b lehk\u00e9 tuto prosbu odm\u00edtnout bez pocitu viny. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\"><b>Ano, tohle je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Um\u011bt odm\u00edtnout bez pocitu viny.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">J\u00e1 neodm\u00edt\u00e1m j\u00ed, jen t\u00edm odm\u00edtnut\u00edm pot\u0159ebuji naplnit svoji pot\u0159ebu. Zde to je pot\u0159eba odpov\u011bdnosti <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\"><b>za sebe<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\"><b>ne za druh\u00e9<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">. Neodm\u00edt\u00e1m ani spolupr\u00e1ci, jen nechci vyhov\u011bt jej\u00ed prosb\u011b, proto\u017ee v tom vn\u00edm\u00e1m, \u017ee ONA svoji odpov\u011bdnost za v\u010dasn\u00e9 posl\u00e1n\u00ed materi\u00e1lu, p\u0159esunula na M\u011a.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">C\u00edtila jsem velkou \u00falevu a vd\u011b\u010dnost za to, co m\u011b u\u010d\u00ed <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\"><b>nen\u00e1siln\u00e1 komunikace<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">. D\u00edky tomu pomalu odbour\u00e1v\u00e1m nap\u011bt\u00ed a v\u017edy p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd stres v t\u011ble. Ono by se \u0159eklo, \u017ee je to takov\u00e9 \u201emal\u00e9 nic\u201c. Ale kolik j\u00e1 jich v sob\u011b m\u011bla! Jak zcela automaticky jsem hl\u00eddala r\u016fzn\u00e9 term\u00edny, kter\u00e9 se m\u011b v\u016fbec net\u00fdkaly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"western\"><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma, serif;\">Jak mn\u011b se ulevilo, kdy\u017e se o ty \u201emal\u00e9 nic\u201c nestar\u00e1m. A t\u011blo mi to d\u00e1v\u00e1 tak\u00e9 najevo. Je uvoln\u011bn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a letit\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee se zatuhl\u00fdmi trap\u00e9zami jsou ty tam. C\u00edt\u00edm se svobodn\u011bji, voln\u011bji a s lehkost\u00ed kr\u00e1\u010d\u00edm \u017eivotem.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>U\u010d\u00edm se zach\u00e1zet se svou odpov\u011bdnost\u00ed. To znamen\u00e1 vid\u011bt hranice toho, co moje odpov\u011bdnost je, a vid\u011bt i hranice toho, co u\u017e moje odpov\u011bdnost nen\u00ed. Takhle to zn\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 jednodu\u0161e, ale v praxi zji\u0161\u0165uji, \u017ee to tak snadn\u00e9 nen\u00ed. Nau\u010dila jsem se toti\u017e p\u0159ij\u00edmat ciz\u00ed odpov\u011bdnost za svou. V\u00fdsledkem bylo nap\u011bt\u00ed v t\u011ble, kdy hlavn\u011b [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17185,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17183","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17183","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17183"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17183\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17186,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17183\/revisions\/17186"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}