{"id":17262,"date":"2016-07-07T17:34:44","date_gmt":"2016-07-07T15:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/?p=17262"},"modified":"2017-03-07T15:21:10","modified_gmt":"2017-03-07T14:21:10","slug":"pujdes-sama-chces-jet-kocarku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/pujdes-sama-chces-jet-kocarku\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u016eJDE\u0160 SAMA NEBO CHCE\u0160 JET V KO\u010c\u00c1RKU?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Moje kamar\u00e1dka m\u00e1 dv\u011b hol\u010di\u010dky. Star\u0161\u00ed dvouap\u016flletou Beru\u0161ku a \u0161estit\u00fddenn\u00ed Mimi.<\/p>\n<p>Kdy\u017e jsem je p\u0159i\u0161la nav\u0161t\u00edvit, prvn\u00ed co m\u011b zarazilo, byly dva ko\u010d\u00e1rky v\u00a0p\u0159eds\u00edni.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eJak chod\u00edte ven? Ka\u017edou rukou tla\u010d\u00ed\u0161 jeden ko\u010d\u00e1rek?\u201c zeptala jsem se udiven\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Neum\u011bla jsem si to p\u0159edstavit v\u00a0re\u00e1lu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNe. Beru jeden nebo druh\u00fd.\u201c Odpov\u011bd\u011bla.<\/p>\n<p>\u201e?????\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Po\u010dkej, a\u017e p\u016fjdeme ven, uvid\u00ed\u0161 sama\u201c, pokra\u010dovala, kdy\u017e vid\u011bla m\u016fj nech\u00e1pav\u00fd v\u00fdraz.<\/p>\n<p>Kdy\u017e nastala doba j\u00edt s\u00a0hol\u010di\u010dkami ven, kamar\u00e1dka se zeptala Beru\u0161ky.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eP\u016fjde\u0161 sama nebo chce\u0161 jet v\u00a0ko\u010d\u00e1rku?\u201c<\/p>\n<p>\u201eV ko\u010d\u00e1rku,\u201c zazn\u011bla odpov\u011b\u010f.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eTy se j\u00ed pt\u00e1\u0161? Aby se ona rozhodla????\u201c t\u00e1zala jsem se udiven\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eJo, pt\u00e1m. Kdy\u017e se rozhodnu pro hlubok\u00fd ko\u010d\u00e1rek s\u00a0Mimi a ona se venku bude cht\u00edt taky v\u00e9zt, nem\u00e1m ji kam posadit. Pak je mrzut\u00e1, protivn\u00e1 a cel\u00e1 proch\u00e1zka je pro n\u00e1s v\u0161echny stres.<\/p>\n<p>Kdy\u017e se j\u00ed zept\u00e1m, ona si vybere ko\u010d\u00e1rek, vezmu Mimi do \u0161\u00e1tku. A kdy\u017e \u0159ekne, \u017ee p\u016fjde sama, vezmu Mimi do ko\u010d\u00e1rku a ona si pob\u00edh\u00e1 vedle. A jsme v\u0161echny v\u00a0klidu.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Jak je to jednoduch\u00e9. D\u00e1t d\u016fv\u011bru mal\u00e9 dvouap\u016fllet\u00e9 hol\u010di\u010dce.<\/p>\n<p>To ale v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed kultu\u0159e neb\u00fdv\u00e1 zvykem. My, dosp\u011bl\u00ed, p\u0159ece nejl\u00e9pe v\u00edme, co je pro na\u0161e d\u011bti nejlep\u0161\u00ed. A podle tohoto p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed jedn\u00e1me.<\/p>\n<p>Um\u011bt mu d\u00e1t d\u016fv\u011bru a nechat ho, aby se rozhodlo samo. Sta\u010d\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00edm za\u010d\u00edt.<\/p>\n<p>\u017de u\u017e se to n\u011bkter\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm da\u0159\u00ed, o tom sv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh.<\/p>\n<p>Jak se se svou \u010dty\u0159letou dcerkou domluvil tat\u00ednek pot\u00e9, co pravila:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eChci, abyste m\u011b poslouchali. Chci, aby bylo po m\u00e9m,\u201c si m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst<a href=\"http:\/\/nenasilnakomunikace.com\/blog-nvc\/slyset-lide-rikaji\/\">\u00a0zde<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ud\u011blala jsem si mal\u00fd test v\u00a0m\u00e9m okol\u00ed a zeptala se zn\u00e1m\u00fdch, jak by to \u0159e\u0161ily s ko\u010d\u00e1rkem ony. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jednotn\u011b zazn\u011blo:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eNeptala bych se j\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>A p\u0159i tom je to tak jednoduch\u00e9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moje kamar\u00e1dka m\u00e1 dv\u011b hol\u010di\u010dky. Star\u0161\u00ed dvouap\u016flletou Beru\u0161ku a \u0161estit\u00fddenn\u00ed Mimi. Kdy\u017e jsem je p\u0159i\u0161la nav\u0161t\u00edvit, prvn\u00ed co m\u011b zarazilo, byly dva ko\u010d\u00e1rky v\u00a0p\u0159eds\u00edni. \u201eJak chod\u00edte ven? Ka\u017edou rukou tla\u010d\u00ed\u0161 jeden ko\u010d\u00e1rek?\u201c zeptala jsem se udiven\u011b. Neum\u011bla jsem si to p\u0159edstavit v\u00a0re\u00e1lu. \u201eNe. Beru jeden nebo druh\u00fd.\u201c Odpov\u011bd\u011bla. \u201e?????\u201c Po\u010dkej, a\u017e p\u016fjdeme ven, uvid\u00ed\u0161 sama\u201c, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17263,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17262","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17262","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17262"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17262\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17303,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17262\/revisions\/17303"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17262"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17262"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17262"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}