{"id":18420,"date":"2020-06-14T13:13:51","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T11:13:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/?p=18420"},"modified":"2025-05-28T14:42:44","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T12:42:44","slug":"proc-chodim-vcas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/proc-chodim-vcas\/","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d chod\u00edm v\u010das."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\n\nC\u00edtila jsem v sob\u011b neklid, vztek a strach, kdy\u017e jsem na n\u011bkoho \u010dekala a on ne\u0161el a pak p\u0159i\u0161el pozd\u011b. Proto\u017ee j\u00e1 chod\u00edm v\u010das. Zkoumala jsem sv\u00e9 pocity a objevila jsem n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 jdu v\u010das, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m t\u00edm tomu druh\u00e9mu &#8211; zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 m\u011b, pe\u010duji o n\u00e1\u0161 vztah, m\u00e1m o tebe z\u00e1jem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 jdu pozd\u011b, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m t\u00edm tomu druh\u00e9mu &#8211; nezaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 m\u011b, n\u00e1\u0161 vztah je mi fuk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 na n\u011bkoho \u010dek\u00e1m a on nejde, na\u010d\u00edt\u00e1m si to takto &#8211; nezaj\u00edm\u00e1m ho, nem\u00e1 z\u00e1jem o n\u00e1\u0161 vztah &#8211; c\u00edt\u00edm se t\u00edm ohro\u017een\u00e1, proto\u017ee, vztahy jsou pro n\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 &#8211; \u017eijeme ve sme\u010dce a bez sme\u010dky nep\u0159e\u017eiju. J\u00e1 tam m\u00e1m strach z ohro\u017een\u00ed, kdy\u017e na n\u011bkoho \u010dek\u00e1m!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bylo zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 potkat se s t\u00edm strachem, kdy\u017e jsem si uv\u011bdomila, jak tu situaci na\u010d\u00edt\u00e1m. A ulevilo mi to. Te\u010f si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m &#8211; jde jenom pozd\u011b. To nic nevypov\u00edd\u00e1 o na\u0161em vztahu. Jenom se zpozdil\/a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>**Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 jdu pozd\u011b **- J\u00c1 ohro\u017euji n\u00e1\u0161 vztah, t\u00edm, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b, tak o n\u011bj nepe\u010duji. J\u00c1 sama sebe ohro\u017euji (z\u016fstanu sama a bez sme\u010dky nep\u0159e\u017eiju). Proto jsem v\u017edy chodila v\u010das, abych sama sebe neohro\u017eovala!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tak\u017ee jsem si jednou dovolila v\u011bdom\u011b p\u0159ij\u00edt pozd\u011b. J\u00e1 jsem si ten pozdn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edchod napl\u00e1novala, abych si vyzkou\u0161ela, \u017ee nejsem ohro\u017een\u00e1, jenom jsem p\u0159i\u0161la pozd\u011b. A ud\u011blal mi ten pozdn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edchod velkou radost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tohle zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed m\u011b nau\u010dila nen\u00e1siln\u00e1 komunikace. A d\u00edky tomu se mi ulevuje \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc zkoum\u00e1m to, co se ve mn\u011b d\u011bje.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00edtila jsem v sob\u011b neklid, vztek a strach, kdy\u017e jsem na n\u011bkoho \u010dekala a on ne\u0161el a pak p\u0159i\u0161el pozd\u011b. Proto\u017ee j\u00e1 chod\u00edm v\u010das. Zkoumala jsem sv\u00e9 pocity a objevila jsem n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed. Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 jdu v\u010das, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m t\u00edm tomu druh\u00e9mu &#8211; zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 m\u011b, pe\u010duji o n\u00e1\u0161 vztah, m\u00e1m o tebe z\u00e1jem. Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 jdu pozd\u011b, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18422,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18420","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18420","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18420"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18420\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18423,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18420\/revisions\/18423"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jklimesova.cz\/uvod\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}